A few things before our date.

No. It starts the conversation. Screening, my acceptance and the reservation deposit are required before our plans are confirmed.

Of course. Say so when you write and we’ll go at your pace. New friends begin at 90 minutes; the Girlfriend Experience begins at two hours. See First Times & Confidence and date lengths and overnights.

Advance planning is appreciated, especially for Bay Area travel, weekends and longer evenings. If timing is close, send your inquiry and follow it with a brief text.

Sacramento, the Bay Area and Las Vegas, and I also meet in San Jose, Walnut Creek, Napa and Seattle. Rates for Sacramento, the Bay Area and Las Vegas are on the Rates page; for anywhere else, ask me when you write. Fly Me to You is for returning friends planning at least 12 hours together. See Fly me to you and travel details.

Once screening is complete and I’ve accepted our plans, a 30% reservation deposit holds our time and is applied toward the total (50% for an accepted first-meeting overnight). Cash or cryptocurrency are strongly preferred for the balance. Everything else is under payment details under Rates.

Your name or alias, how to reply, your city and possible dates, and the kind of time you have in mind are enough. We can discuss the rest privately. Please do not send ID, financial information, a home address or sensitive documents through the form.

Yes. This site and my dates are for adults 21 and over.

The short introduction form keeps the essentials together. Text, WhatsApp, Signal or Telegram is my preferred way to reply; tell me which you use and include your number or username. You can also text me directly, especially when your dates are close. Email works, but please check your spam folder for my reply. Include your name or alias, city, possible dates and the time you have in mind. I handle my own messages; please keep first contact to planning rather than explicit requests.

It helps us both feel comfortable before making plans. I handle it personally and will tell you privately what I need. FaceTime with me is free, so you can see that I’m the woman in my photographs, too.

We agree on the city and type of setting while planning. I share the precise meeting details after screening, acceptance and confirmation. Please do not arrive at a hotel or venue on the strength of an inquiry alone.

Please write to me yourself. I am independent and handle my own inquiries. No agency, manager or third party books our time.

For an incall, I select and book a four- or five-star hotel; you cover its full cost in addition to the reservation rate. For an outcall, I come to your hotel or another setting we have agreed on. We settle the details before confirmation.

Tell me before making any change. The location, people present and plan need to be agreed on in advance. Please do not send a replacement address, invite someone else or ask me to enter a different room on arrival. A changed plan needs my agreement; I may decline it.

Arrive freshly showered, with brushed teeth, well groomed and sober. I will take the same care. Please offer only sealed drinks that I can open myself.

Please tell me before we meet if you are ill or think you may be contagious. I will do the same. We can discuss a different date rather than put either of us in an uncomfortable position.

Tell me as early as you can. Our time begins at the confirmed start time, and an extension depends on my availability. We can discuss changes directly; please do not assume a new time has been reserved until I confirm it.

No surprise guests, recording or hidden cameras. If you are interested in a shared experience, ask in advance so we can discuss it and agree on the plan before the date.

Please keep our correspondence and meeting details private. Do not post my contact details, share private messages, identify a hotel or tag me in photos. I will treat your privacy with the same care. If you would like to leave a public note, use Kind Notes; submissions stay private until I review and approve them.

Either of us can set a boundary, change our mind or stop. Pressure, disrespect or ignoring a boundary ends the date. Consent is mutual and ongoing.

My reserved time, preparation, availability, any agreed travel and private social companionship. Sexual services are not offered.

Six hours is an active evening—perhaps dinner, a show or another outing—and does not include sleep. An overnight is up to 12 hours with a natural sleep period. See the date lengths under Rates.

Not always. Plans and preparation can affect the total. Tell me the general kind of evening you imagine; I will confirm the rate before any deposit. Read the pricing note.

For an incall, on the table where I can see it. For an outcall, in the bathroom; please tell me where it is. If we meet in public first, ask me beforehand how I prefer to handle it.