Want to see me before we meet? FaceTime with me is free.

Photos can only tell you so much. If you’d like to see me, hear my voice and know I’m the woman in my photographs before you plan anything, ask for a FaceTime. It’s free.

Why I offer it

It helps us both feel comfortable before making plans. You get to see that I’m real, and it can help me verify you too.

How to ask

Mention it when you write, by text or with a little note on the site. I read every note myself and usually reply within minutes.

What it is, and what it isn’t

A FaceTime is part of getting comfortable with each other. Screening is still required before a first meeting; I review it personally and will tell you privately what I need. A call doesn’t reserve a date either: our time is reserved once I’ve accepted our plans and received the deposit.

A few kind rules

• Please don’t send ID, financial information, a home address or sensitive documents in your first message or through the website form.
• Keep first contact to planning rather than explicit requests.
• I’m completely independent and handle my own messages, and I ask for the same discretion in return.